Discover Inner Joy This Summer: Tips to Brighten Your Days
- Ela Senghera
- Jul 16
- 3 min read
The holidays are finally here!
Do you remember being a child during the holidays? The way your eyes would light up at the first glimpse of twinkling lights, how you'd press your nose against frosted windows to see the first snow? Your inner child is an expert at noticing. Children don't force joy - they simply see it everywhere. They find delight in the way holiday lights reflect in puddles, the satisfying crunch of leaves underfoot, or the chase of a ball. They notice the way their breath creates little clouds in winter air, and they're fascinated by the patterns frost makes on windows.
That sense of wonder didn't disappear—it's still there, waiting for you to rediscover it. Life has a way of testing us, especially during what should be the most joyful season - like summer holidays.. Some days feel heavy, wrapped in uncertainty or the weight of adult responsibilities, and it's easy to lose sight of what makes it all worthwhile. But there's something magical that happens when we pause, breathe, and reconnect with the child within us - the part that still believes in wonder, still finds joy in simple moments, and still sees the world with fresh eyes.

The Gift of Childlike Wonder in Friendship
Remember how easy it was to make friends as a child? How you could bond over shared cookies or a favorite game? Your inner child understands that friends are the family we choose, the ones who see us at our silliest and still choose to stay. They're the people who will build snowmen with us at 30, who celebrate our wins as if they were their own, and who sit with us in our losses without trying to fix everything. Good friends don't just make the good times better—they make the hard times bearable. They remind us who we are when we've forgotten, and they believe in us when we can't believe in ourselves. In a world that can feel isolating, especially during the holidays when everyone seems to have it all together, friendship is the bridge that connects us back to hope, laughter, and belonging.
Small Joys, Big Magic
Your inner child knows that the best gifts aren't always the biggest ones. It's the text from a friend just when you needed it, the perfect song that came on at just the right moment, the stranger who smiled at you on a difficult day, or the way your pet's eyes light up when you come home. Children excel at celebrating small victories: finishing a puzzle, trying something new, making it through a tough day at school, or simply choosing kindness when it would be easier not to. These moments might seem insignificant to our adult minds, but they're the threads that weave together a life worth living. Your inner child remembers that joy isn't something you have to earn- it's something you notice, celebrate, and share. Its not too late to re-learn this skill. Do it! You have your whole life to enjoy !
Moving Forward with Self-Love
Life isn't easy, but it's also full of unexpected gifts and moments of pure joy that catch us off guard—especially during this magical season. Your inner child is an expert at staying open to these possibilities. They know how to hope, believe in magic, and find joy even when the world feels heavy. But here's something equally important: your inner child also knows how to love unconditionally. Remember how easily you forgave yourself as a child? How you'd dust yourself off after falling and keep playing? Children naturally practice self-compassion without even knowing it. And they love everyone and almost everything ! Reconnecting with your inner child means rediscovering loving relationship with yourself. It means speaking to yourself with the same tenderness you'd show a beloved child. When you truly love yourself, you naturally begin to notice more beauty, connect more deeply with others, and find wonder in everyday moments. The child within you has been waiting for this invitation and for your love. Learn the art of self love and experience more love from others !

FURTHER HELP
If you are feeling stressed and could do with some help in finding your balance again, book your free discovery call with me. As a certified mindset coach I will help you find inner peace and take steps necessary to build an authentic, fulfilling life. My approach offers you a non-judgmental and safe space for exploring your personal issues and moving forward with courage. Many people have trusted me to help them transform their life. Give yourself a chance for better life too.
Wishing you a great summer!




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